Wednesday, September 18, 2013

excuses, excuses

Mah peeps! Sorry for not posting in (yikes) 5 months! In my defense, however, I've been working on a new project: awanderlustingheart.blogspot.com

While I have NOT jumped ship (aka debodeoverflow.blogspot.com) I've created A Wanderlusting Heart as a second blog, this one being entirely devoted to Haiti. More specifically, my travels to Haiti.

If you want a snapshot of what A Wanderlusting Heart is all about, here is the link to the first post: Alo!

Feel free to check out both A Wanderlusting Heart and remain a loyal follower of DO (that is, if there is anyone out there who reads this anyways! ha!). Thank you!
I got a little bit of a laugh when I looked at the last post I'd put up here. But it was really more of an "Awwww seriously? Why didn't I accomplish like anything!?" type of laugh.

You see, in the most recent post, I'd put up 10 things that I hoped to do this past summer. Looking back, only one of these got done. ONE. And that was #1, only because I have a summer job. Please note that #2 was not accomplished. Sad day. :(

Here's what all happened:

1) CHECK. I work. Woo?
2) FAIL. Big surprise there, huh? I like to shop  :)
3) FAIL. I skateboarded in my garage and on my driveway like five times maybe? But I would NEVER say I learned how to skateboard!
4) FAIL. I think I MAYBE rode my bike once? And I love riding my bike! I miss you, dear Bikey.
5) FAIL. I think I ran outside twice. Even though my hope was pretty vague (it didn't say how many times), I still consider it to be a failure.
6) FAIL. Emmie wasn't 18 when auditions came around. But next summer this IS happening!
7) FAIL. Work sucks. I'm inside all day, every day. :(
8) FAIL. Hells to the no. A six pack did not happen by any means. If anything, I put on the weight!
9) FAIL. Didn't play once. I miss it...maybe if I played I could accomplish 9, 8, and  7!
10) FAIL. I went a maybe 5 or 6 times. Decent, but definitely not every week. :(

Oh well, there's always next year!

BTW: it's SEPTEMBER. New Year's Resolutions, anyone? I failed--I said I'd lose weight. PHA!

Monday, April 15, 2013

summer 2013! woot woooooooot!

this summer, as usual, I have a list of things I want to accomplish:

1) make monayyyy
2) save monayyyy
3) learn to skateboard (now THAT will be interesting!)
4) ride my bike every day
5) run outside (this is easier said than done--I DEFINITELY like running inside on a treadmill more for some reason!)
6) try out for American Idol with Emmie
7) get a tan
8) get a six pack
9) play some more tennis
10) hit the batting cages once a week AT LEAST (get it? get it? HIT the batting cages? ha so punny)


ummmmmm so yeah. I think that's it! for now at least  :)

Generational Differences in Death Penalty Views; a paper

Last year during my freshman English class, we were told to pick whatever topic we wanted, but we had to take a controversial topic and write a persuasive paper on it while also showcasing both/all sides of the controversy. I chose to write about the death penalty. As a pro-life Catholic, I am a firm believer in NOT using the death penalty. Yes, I've taken multiple classes on the criminal justice system and I know that imprisonment is super expensive. However, so is the death penalty--did you know a 1988 study by the Sacramento Bee said if California abolished the death penalty, the state could potentially save NINETY MILLION DOLLARS PER YEAR!? Also, shouldn't the people who commit these crimes that apparently warrant the death penalty be forced to live with their actions? Here's the paper I wrote a year ago (I've updated the statistics, but that's all). My teacher (who has been infamous for NEVER giving away a single "A") gave me not only an "A", but an "A+"--needless to say, I was pretty darn happy, AND she told me in front of the whole class that mine was publish-worthy! Let me know what you think--whether you agree with me or not, I want to hear your perspective!   :)






Generational Differences in Death Penalty Views 

            It does not take a genius to figure out that generations think differently about a fair number of issues. Whether the debate is about tattoos and piercings or if it is about what can be considered as music, these generational views exist. If generations think differently about issues such as these, then surely they must have varying opinions about the death penalty.
             The death penalty is defined as the court-ordered imposition of a sentence of execution as punishment for a crime (Webster’s New World Law Dictionary). In simple terms, the death penalty is an order from the court to kill a bad guy. There are five different ways of executing the offender: lethal injection, electrocution, gas chamber, hanging, and firing squad. Lethal injections are just that—injections (typically a solution of barbiturate, paralytic, and potassium) that put the restrained person to sleep, then stop the breathing and the heart (Bonsor).
Electrocution is nearly always carried out by means of the electric chair. The criminal is strapped to a wooden chair, built specifically for this purpose, and electrodes are placed on the body. It is through these electrodes that electrical currents electrocute the person. The first rush of current through the body is intended to cause unconsciousness and make the person literally brain-dead, and the second current is supposed to damage to the vital organs (Swarthmore College).
Gas chamber executions are implemented by strapping the convicted person to a chair inside a sealed gas chamber. The executioner, who is outside of the chamber, “pulls a level dropping potassium cyanide tablets pellets into a vat of sulfuric acid, flooding the chamber with lethal hydrogen cyanide gas” (Head). Death by hanging is done the way it has been for years: the person stands on a trapdoor with a “hangman’s noose” rope, tied by the executioner, around his or her neck. The executioner then pulls a level, which opens the trapdoor, and the prisoner’s neck should break quickly (Head).
The final method of execution, death by firing squad, is just as horrific as the other four techniques. The convict is strapped into a chair with five gunmen pointing at his or her heart. Once all five gunmen shoot, it is essentially guaranteed that one of the bullets will have killed the victim. One interesting fact about this method is that one out of the five sharpshooters is equipped with a blank round, so there is a twenty-percent chance that each sharpshooter did not end up killing the convict (Head). None of these five methods sound too pleasant, do they?
In addition to the gruesome sound of these methods, the cost is incredibly high. New Jersey taxpayers have paid $253 million for the state’s death penalty since 1983, according to a 2009 report from New Jersey Policy Perspectives (Death Penalty Focus). It remains a fact that any and all of these methods are much more expensive than an alternative of life in prison without parole. According to the Federal Death Penalty Act of 1994, almost every homicide (there are approximately 16, 000 per year in the United States) is now death-eligible (Death Penalty Focus). Of the 343 federal executions (two of which were women) in 182 years, four of these executions in two years were proven wrongful. These numbers might not sound high, but at least to the families of those who were wrongfully executed, the loss is huge. Of the number of inmates who are currently on death row, 98.13% are male and 1.87% are female. 44.40% are white, 41.43% are black, 11.74% are Latino, 1.13% are Native American, 1.26% are Asian, and 0.03% are unknown or unreported (Death Penalty Focus).
When I was younger—and less informed on the topic of the death penalty—I would say that I thought the death penalty depended on the individual case. Now, as a fairly informed college student, I have researched and spent a decent amount of time studying the death penalty. At this point, I have no doubt that I am anti-death penalty. As an involved Catholic, I believe that all life is sacred. Even in the case of murderers or rapists, their lives should not be shortened. We are not the ones who get to choose when someone’s life ends. That is all up to God. We are not God (though some people may think they are). I believe that murderers and rapists should be heavily punished. I think that a better way to punish these criminals would be putting them in prison until they die without parole. That way, they have to live regretting whatever kind of crime they committed. Death seems like the easy way out.
            When I set about seeing if there were any generational differences in death penalty views, I knew that I would need to conduct a survey.  I created an anonymous questionnaire that was distributed both electronically and in print. This survey consisted of only four questions. The first question asked if the survey taker was male or female. This question did not pertain to the generational differences, but I thought that it still might be interesting to see if there were any trends by gender. The second question asked for the age of the survey taker. This question was formatted so that the taker could write or type in their age, rather than a range to pick from. The third question asked, “Would you consider yourself to be pro-death penalty or anti-death penalty?” and offered answer choices. The first option was, “I would consider myself to be pro-death penalty.” The second option was, “I would consider myself to be anti-death penalty.” The third option was, “I think it depends on the individual case.” I changed the look of the part of the answer that varied from option to option to make it easier for the person taking the survey. I included three options, rather than just two, because there are more than just pro- or anti-death penalty.
            My survey also included a fourth mandatory question. “Based on your answer to the question above, why would you say that? (ex: religious beliefs, etc).” I wanted to know why people held their views, not just what their views were. Their reasons intrigued me. I got everything from, “Life is precious in His name and our Creator,” to “Everyone has the right to life, but there are people who have abused this right by ending the life of more than one person. I don’t know, it’s a tough decision,” to “Family that works in the prison system,” to “Eye for an eye.” Some were eager to explain their views, but others didn’t have as many reasons for support (example: “because it is right”). I am not saying that this and other such answers are invalid because they are not. But I also expected that college students would at least have some reasons for their views (Hogan).
            Sixty-four people between the ages of fifteen and seventy-one years old took my survey. Those who completed the survey showed that many people are anti-death penalty. 14.29% of the sample said that they were pro-death penalty. 57.14% of those who completed the survey selected that they were anti-death penalty. 28.57% of those participants said that they thought that it depended on the individual case. The answers did not correlate with the ages of those who submitted the surveys, so this shows that generations as a whole do not feel differently about the death penalty.

            The results of the survey I conducted showed me my initial hypothesis was wrong: generations do not think differently about the death penalty. This result pleasantly astonished me because I thought that the younger generations would be more liberal and thereby be pro-death. I was happily surprised because as someone who is anti-death penalty, it is refreshing to know that there are people my age, older, and younger, who stand with me on this issue.





Works Cited
Bonsor, Kevin. "How Lethal Injection Works." How Stuff Works. Web. 3 Apr. 2012.
“Death Penalty Focus.” Death Penalty. Web. 17 Mar. 2012.
“Death Penalty Legal Definition.” Webster’s New World Law Dictionary. Hoboken:
Wiley, 2010. Death Penalty Legal definition. Web. 17 Mar. 2012.
"Electric Chair." Swarthmore College. Web. 03 Apr. 2012.
Head, Tom. "Gas Chamber Executions." About.com Civil Liberties. Web. 3 Apr. 2012.
Hogan, Abigail. “Death Penalty Survey.” Survey. 17 Mar. 2012.
Journal for the Scientific Study of Religion, Vol. 31, No. 1 (Mar. 1992), pp. 76-87.

Monday, March 25, 2013

society irks me: a rant

SOCIETY DRIVES ME CRAZY LIKE NONE OTHER.

Okay, now that we've escalated and jumped the gun so to speak, I suppose I should probably clue you in as to WHY and WHAT specifically pisses me off about society. Namely, the relationships between men and women.

What was the first thing you wanted to be when you grew up? I, like a lot of little girls, wanted to be a princess like Cinderella or Snow White or Pocahontas (the list goes on). What qualities did these women (either real or fictional) possess that made them so likeable? To me, they were gorgeous, had hotties on their arms, were bright, and down-to-earth. And none of those are bad, correct? And ya know what else they all had in common? THEY WERE INDEPENDENT AND DIDN'T GIVE IT ALL AWAY ON A FIRST DATE. Okay, sorry for the rush ahead (again). But seriously. While we may not see the princesses go on their first dates, I think it's fair to assume that they would have been courted and not been the first in the kingdom to strip and give up their V-cards for some hotties. Am I right or am I right?!

I cannot tell you (no seriously, I can't) how many times I've talked with friends about this. So many women are making it perfectly okay for guys to want (and even expect!) sex and (other stuff that I'm not going to mention) before marriage or even before just dating. Too many chicks* give guys what they want instead of standing their ground. I'm not one of them. I WILL stay a virgin til marriage, which yes, is increasingly harder and more rare with society changing for what I believe is the worse. I want a man who loves God and me, who wants to wait til marriage and can show me the respect and love that God intended.

On a related note: many chicks have "lists" of what they want in a guy. Years ago, mine started off with, "Oh well he HAS to be cute! He HAS to be smart! He HAS to be Catholic! He HAS to be the funniest guy ever! He HAS to have a good career and money! He HAS to fun! He HAS to be nice!" Well, my list has gradually narrowed itself down to, "He HAS to be Catholic, or at least Christian!" and "He HAS to be sweet and love me for me and respect me!" Pretty simple, huh? Yes, of course it'd be fantastic if he was a hottie, goal-oriented, hilarious, and all that. But what matters to me most is his love for God and me (and his family of course, but hopefully that comes with the love for me and God).

Show yourself the respect you deserve, ladies and gentlemen! Have standards. Class not trash.

Sometimes you have to tell it like it is. And I'm not afraid to, nor am I afraid for a few rebuttals. BRING IT, PEEPS! I honestly want to hear your thoughts.




*whenever I say "chick" about a woman, I DO NOT mean it in a degrading way! I call myself a chick and my closest friends! I'm just super chill and basically a bro so I'm really loose with that!*



A closing quote:
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn't serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we're liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others." ~Marianne Williamson




Monday, March 11, 2013

am I the only one who can't stand society!?

the question that titles this post might be inaccurate. but i think about society a lot.

society |səˈsīətē|noun ( pl. -ties)the aggregate of people living together in a more or less ordered community

society drives me absolutely nuts. not just the people that make up society, but also the things that they do. how they act. that sort of thing (if that makes any sense).

Thursday, February 21, 2013

workouts that don't feel like you're working out.

Personally, I enjoy a good workout. I love hitting up the gym for an hour or two! However, I know a lot of people, both male and female, who don't feel the same way, but still want to be fit. Here are some of my favorite ways to burn some calories without going to the gym.


  • Wii. yes, I just said you can play video games and burn calories! obviously, this doesn't apply to all video games. Wii Fit and Wii Sports are both awesome video games that help you burn some serious cals. I love boxing and baseball on Wii Sports and doing basically everything on Wii Fit. You are way more likely to get a better workout if you treat the exercises seriously, instead of tricking the Wii. I know that for playing baseball on the Wii you can just flick your wrist and score a homer if you time it correctly. But if you get in the correct stance and follow through, you'll really start to feel it! And the boxing is awesome! It's so addicting! Your abs and arms will get a workout, honestly.
  • go bike. I like to go biking with one of my best friends, Cha, a few times a week down a bike trail here, but you can bike just about anywhere (be safe though, please!). I've also biked a few miles to a grocery store. It doesn't feel like it's a workout, but it is!
  • bowling. It works your arms and legs (and I suppose even your abs and butt) while you're having a good time.
  • take the stairs. even if there's an elevator, opting for the stairs is a quick adjustment that can really benefit you in the long run. you're getting a better booty and legs without even thinking about it that much!
  • shopping. okay, take this to heart. I am not telling you to go shop just for the heck of it! If you need to go get groceries, walk around more than you might have to. Carrying your bags/baskets helps a lot, too. Talk about a workout without thinking!
  • get active. swimming, go ice skating, playing basketball, playing tennis, walking the dog--it all adds up and helps you slim down!